“You’re trapped in a cycle of pleasure, pain, disillusionment, blaming, and reconnection. This cycle in an unhealthy relationship repeats itself until one partner breaks finally breaks free.”
Some people are lucky to be in love with the right person, Others are not.
There are a lot of different types of relation ships,
-spending time
-benefits relation ships.
-Love relation ships.
-Attachment relation ships.
-Healthy/right Love relation ships.
- And Un healthy relation ships.
-spending time
-benefits relation ships.
-Love relation ships.
-Attachment relation ships.
-Healthy/right Love relation ships.
- And Un healthy relation ships.
Un healthy relation ships is this kind of relations that you are in a deep love with a person like almost you are addicted him/her, But both of you are simply not compatible.
their is no communication path between you, you don’t know how to deliver the information for each other, Or you are not having the same rilm. You maybe missing the point that you both are talking about.
In this type of relationship Most of the time not all the times you find yourself working so hard to give the other party his needs, Still he doesn’t see it or appreciate. That goes back to the same point you are not understanding each other.
She doesn’t see that you are doing anything for her cause you are working on the wrong side. This is not what she needs. Same goes vice versa.
This type of relationship gets you in a lot of conflicts, Hurt and pain. for the two sides. You keep saying it will change we can go for the better and so on so forth.
“Love is about being attached, not about being happy”
Some of the signs to know if you are in an unhealthy relationship
-Unrealistic expectations of your partner, simply he does the actions from his/her own prospective which is different than yours.
-Unrealistic expectations of your partner, simply he does the actions from his/her own prospective which is different than yours.
-Instant, constant gratification,You expect him to be around all the time, especially when you need him. You want him to make you happy immediately
-Dishonesty or omissions of truth,You don’t talk about who you are or what’s really bothering you. You lie about what you want, both to yourself and your partner.
-Compulsive control, an often ignored sign of an unhealthy relationship,You/he has to act a certain way, or someone threatens to leave. You both feel trapped in your toxic relationship. You know it’s gone sour and you’re not together voluntarily, but it’s hard to leave…
-Lack of trust, one of the worst love problems, You don’t really believe your partner really loves you.
-Social isolation, your relationship is almost a secret, Your friends, family, and coworkers aren’t knit into the fabric in a healthy, loving way.
Sometimes people can work and ends up turning their relationship INTO a healthy relationship, They finally find a way of communiction, They mix their own rilms. This is beautiful cause before it all they are in love.
Some other simply can’t solve it out, they don’t ever find the right way, For this kinda situation It’s better to end it up.
You don’t need an unhealthy relation ship in your life. It’s like an addict. Mostly you only hurt each other.
You don’t need an unhealthy relation ship in your life. It’s like an addict. Mostly you only hurt each other.
In this case scenario, You will have to take a decision and move on with your life, despite how much it will hurt you.
Remember it will only hurt for awhile and the pain will vain away.
Remember it will only hurt for awhile and the pain will vain away.
For the lucky people who will just need to work a little bit hard to fix it up.
Here are some tips:
“The object of love is not getting something you want but doing something for the well-being of the one you love,”
-Express Love With “Words of Affirmation”: Words of affirmation are encouraging, kind, and supportive. What does your partner do well? What do you love about him? Tell him.
- Express Love With the “Gifts” Love Language:Sometimes gifts are an easy way to show your love
- Express Love With “Acts of Service”
-Express Love With the “Quality Time” Love Language: Quality time is about the experiences you share with your sweetheart. How do you spend your time together? Quality time isn’t watching tv together over dinner, or sitting side-by-side while you work on your laptops.
Sometimes, quality time is about sacrifice, which may be a different way to show love…
Sometimes, quality time is about sacrifice, which may be a different way to show love…
-Express Love With the “Physical Touch” Love Language: “Almost instinctively in a time of crisis we hug one another. Why? Because physical touch is a powerful communicator of love.”
“Sometimes love is allowing something to be done for you even when it is not exactly the thing you want or like,”
